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The Journey of Self-Discovery: Uncovering Your True Passions and Purpose Having values plays a huge part in unleashing your inner voice through self discovery.
What are your core values - what principles and qualities are most important to you?
Your values are the things that you believe are important in the way you live and work.
They (should) determine your priorities, and, deep down, they're probably the measures you use to tell if your life is turning out the way you want it to.
When the things that you do and the way you behave match your values, life is usually good – you're satisfied and content.
But when these don't align with your personal values, that's when things feel... wrong.
This can be a real source of unhappiness.
This is why making a conscious effort to identify your values is so important.
How does knowing your Values Help You
Values exist, whether you recognize them or not. Life can be much easier when you acknowledge your values – and when you make plans and decisions that honor them.
If you value family, but you have to work 70-hour weeks in your job, will you feel internal stress and conflict?
And if you don't value competition, and you work in a highly competitive sales environment, are you likely to be satisfied with your job?
In these types of situations, understanding your values can really help.
When you know your own values, you can use them to make decisions about how to live your life, and you can answer questions like these:
What job should I pursue?
Should I accept this promotion?
Should I start my own business?
Should I compromise, or be firm with my position?
Should I follow tradition, or travel down a new path?
Don’t let society and expectations determine who you are.
So, take the time to understand the real priorities in your life, and you'll be able to determine the best direction for you and your life goals!
Make a list of 10-15 values that resonate
Some examples are:
Creativity
Loyalty.
Spirituality.
Humility.
Compassion.
Honesty.
Kindness.
Integrity.
Selflessness.
Identify your top five and use these values as an ethical compass to make decisions aligned with who you really are.
This is important because when you define your personal values, you discover what's truly important to you.
If you are still struggling to define your values, here are five quick steps to help you along the way.
A good way of starting to do this is to look back on your life – to identify when you felt really good, and really confident that you were making good choices.
Step 1: Identify the times when you were happiest
Find examples from both your career and personal life.
This will ensure some balance in your answers.
What were you doing?
Were you with other people? Who?
What other factors contributed to your happiness?
Step 2: Identify the times when you were most proud
Use examples from your career and personal life.
Why were you proud?
Did other people share your pride? Who?
What other factors contributed to your feelings of pride?
Step 3: Identify the times when you were most fulfilled and satisfied
Again, use both work and personal examples.
What need or desire was fulfilled?
How and why did the experience give your life meaning?
What other factors contributed to your feelings of fulfillment?
Step 4: Determine your top values, based on your experiences of happiness, pride, and fulfillment
Why is each experience truly important and memorable?
Use that list of common personal values to help you get started – and aim for your 5 top values.
(As you work through, you may find that some of these naturally combine.
For instance, if you value philanthropy, community, and generosity, you might say that service to others is one of your top values.)
Step 5: Prioritize your top values
This is when you must know which value is more important to you.
Write down your top values, not in any particular order.
Look at the first two values and ask yourself, "If I could satisfy only one of these, which would I choose?" It might help to visualize a situation in which you would have to make that choice. For example, if you compare the values of service and stability, imagine that you must decide whether to sell your house and move to another country to do valuable foreign aid work, or keep your house and volunteer to do charity work closer to home.
Keep working through the list, by comparing each value with each other value, until your list is in the correct order.
Step 6: Reaffirm your values
Check your top-priority values, and make sure that they fit with your life and your vision for yourself.
Do these values make you feel good about yourself?
Are you proud of your top five values?
Would you be comfortable and proud to tell your values to people you respect and admire?
Do these values represent things you would support, even if your choice isn't popular, and it puts you in the minority?
When you consider your values in decision making, you can be sure to keep your sense of integrity and what you know is right, and approach decisions with confidence and clarity.
You'll also know that what you're doing is best for your current and future happiness and satisfaction.
Making value-based choices may not always be easy.
However, making a choice that you know is right for you is a lot less difficult in the long run.
The journey of self-discovery requires looking inward to explore your inner depths.
By investing this time to know yourself more completely, you can live your life with greater alignment, fulfillment and authentic self-expression.
You will unlock your hidden potential and set free your inner voice.
The amazing life you’ve always imagined is waiting for you on the other side of self-discovery.
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